Was reading some blogs and come across one of my friend's blog entries and I find it interesting. There is so much questions and I decided to post my answer based on purely what I think.

Does it really matter whether a boyfriend has to send their girl home?
A: Oh well, I feel that it is just how much the girl mean to you. Although singapore is safe, there is always a "what if" but of course not a "must send", sometimes also have to see the situation. So now the next question I am even more curious to find out, so if the guy is driving, so die die must send the girl home ?!?!?! Does having a car = more convenient and easier ?!?!? Think again, sleeping in the bus or cab on the way home more shiok or got to concentrate on the road despite being tired is more shiok...... THINK !!! No wonder my father's friend rather pay her wife cab fare for her to take cab home than to rush all the way from home to fetch her home.

Do guys really tries to understand girls? Or they just assume they really are?
A: Girls easy to understand one meh ? Sometimes I think girls don't know what they want also. Guys sometimes do things more on the practical sense and girls more on the 'feeling' sense. Of course there are guys who try to understand girls so normally they end up as good friends and pals to the girls. Same feeling for me too, it would be rather scary to have a girlfriend who know me so well to the core... Kind of freaky.

Does girlfriend always sounds naggy to the guys?
A: Think aunties sounds more naggy, guess mostly due to their sharp pitch voice. wahaha... Think I am a weirdo, kind of like girl to nag me, but to a certain extent... Not everything I do then nag then sure faint... maybe 50% is a good one. haha.. But then again, if it is for the better, why not.. haha..

Does it really matter if a couple don't meet for a few weeks?
A: First thing I thought of is niu lang zhi nu. haha.. crap.. Oh well, that will depends on the individual side of activities and reason le. But it sure is a good way to test the strength of the relationship. But personally I feel, if you really like the person, I believe you will at least make some effort although tired to meet up with that person ? It is a both side thing, not single side.

Is it okay if the couple do not tell each other about their whereabouts?
A: Hmmm.... Unless the guy wanna send the girl home or the girl wanna send the guy home, if not ask for what ? unless asking about if the place is fun or not bla bla bla... if not I don't see the reason..

Is it okay to be close friends with opposite gender though you are attached?
A: Sure, why not. As long consciences is clear. Take for example, if a person's girlfriend got so many people entertain her and accompany her and hear her complains, then the boyfriend only need to do very little mah... (Personally it sucks, but this is what is happening now... kaoz... )

Does it really matters who gives more in a relationship?
A: this follows a exponential curve... Once it drops to almost 0, it is as good as dead. No boost up again, means die off.

How does one judge whether they are taken forgranted not?
A: Found that don't think about it is the best solution. Think too much most prob will end up with a world with no people helping other people cause all find it not worth. Humans are selfish in nature, how to change their thinking ??

Is it true that guys don't like to hang out with their girlfriend's friends?
A: Ehm.... basically I think guys don't mind going out unless their friends are super 'against' or 'anti' you one. But must see situation mah.. If only three person.. so you expect the girl to talk to you or her friend. Liang Bai Ju Sang. But then again, if both go shopping... why need the guy to tag along ? just like if I mod car, what can the girl do but wait ? so bo liao must well don't join.

Why do guys like to ask their girl out with him and his friends? To show off?
A: HA ! To show off isn't that good ? haha... think again, if they never tell people about you, isn't that worse.. haha.. Apparently a lot of guys does that when they have a beautiful girlfriend. But then again, sometimes the guy just wanna share the things they do together with the girl and don't want her to be omitted.

Does it really matters that one should not be too sticky towards their partners?
A: Ying Ren Er Yi. Personally I prefer slighty more sticky type. haha.... to control me... wahaha... but it is always good to have lots of freedom. You see, it is a very contradicting thing. Give too much freedom then complain the other party don't care about you, control too much, say you possesive. HA !

Does it matters if one doesn't care who their partner hang out with? Does it really matters?
A: This is something call trust. But the main idea is don't lie, and don't cover up. If consciences is clear, there is no need to hide. just mention openly and I believe the other party can understand, if cannot understand... throw away and find new one. haha...

That's all... What a long entry. haha...




Just wanna jot it down before I forget. I found out one thing about singaporeans and myself...

Singaporeans never believe or bother about the traffic warning display in the expressway. Today it reads, "Accident on Lane 1, 2, 3. Please exit at sungei tengah." And mind you if you people don't know, lane 1,2,3 is almost the whole expressway lane le, only left lane 4 and road shoulder... So I decided to avoid and take sungei tengah today. And I was so glad with my decision, it was indeed a super massive jam with cars not moving at all. You cannot really blame singaporeans also cause the signs is 60% fake message. haha... Not really fake just that not updated. haha...

Second thing is about myself. I find that I like people to show care and concern to me but I dislike it when people gets worried all because of me...




Everyone stands a certain position in a person's heart. Sometimes it can be happy/frustrating to realise where you stand... But there is nothing you can do about it so just adopt my present mindset. "So be it." People says "If you can't beat them, join them." For me, I prefer "If you can't beat them, just ignore and don't be too bothered about them."




It just feel so nice when your boss recognise the effort you have put in. At last he know the amount of effort I have put in so far. Shiok ah.. .haha.. Think I going crazy... And now he want me to help him.... Really pity him.... but too late le... cause I already promised another prof that I going over to help him le. That's all for now. haha.... (^_^)




Yay... This is my number 200 post !!! I have manage to made it so far. haha...

Oh well, better jot down what I wanna write before I forget. HA ! I was on my way to work today and I saw a vios heavily modified on the outside.. and from the way he took off, can hear that he has mod his exhaust and air intake also, okay, mods aside. Oh yah, he was chasing a toyota celica on the road and I suddenly have this feeling. It used to be a male driving ego of mine in the past. It is sort of a kind of feeling. (1) If the vios manage to win the celica, then most prob the guy inside will start thinking, celica so?!? even my vios can win it. what is so good about the coupe. (2) On the other hand, if the vios lose, he will start thinking. Aiya.. People 1.8 engine mah, mine only 1.5, he already has a clear advantage over mine, so not really lugi to lose him since his is a sports car... (-_-")
Now when I start to think over again, I can't seem to find any valid reason or even excuse for 'challenging' cars of other makes on the road. So what if you are faster. I like to quote what my father always told me. "Now you hao lian, speed here, speed there, wait lang ga that time, u become like dog" Just to diverse a bit, why dog !! haha.. why cannot be other animals.. Anyway, my vios friends who saw me play initial D and all of them concluded why I have bad driving habits le... I seems to develop road rage over time and get easily piss off by inconsiderate and 'kayu' drivers. Near accident this week is 3 !!! Just somehow I am like testing my luck.. Haiz.. How can I make myself drive more safely... I have one solution which is I normally drive during the off peak hours so nobody will be there to piss me off. But of course most of the time on the road, you can't really choose what time you want to be on the road. So for now, to reduce my road rage, I drive during the off peak hours where traffic is the most light.

Just went to a dog walk in west coast park during the weekend. Wow was it amazing on the kind of dogs people bring there. But of course I also realised one very important fact which is people breed almost all the same dog... faintz.. so boring.. so end up pipi is one of the more 'unique' dog that gets to be photoshoot and got caught on video for doing the stunts. Oh well, the stunts includes jumping over some wooden logs and apparently when pipi is in the mood, he jumps really gracefully over the log but then again.... when on camera.... he took the shortcut and just run across from the side of the log without the need to jump over... smart !! Then of course there are owners who got so overly proud of their predigree breed to be better than our mongrel and started to make them jump over the log and end up.... to my horror... the dog failed to jump over the log and end up being drag across the log sideways all thanks to the stupid dog owner !!! Faintz !!! And the worst sentence I heard so far there is "You don't care where the dog go ! The dog is your slave, you make it walk where you want to walk !!" True, you have to train the dog to be obedient but defintely not being a slave !!!

Enough for now.. Too long le for my posting. haha... till then. (^_^)




Recently super super busy... Coming up with a new business to earn money.. But then met with a few setbacks.. sian... Will update more soon.

Recently found out that I have a really bad temper during driving... Find that my personality totally change sia... from patient to extremely easily piss out.. I shall bear in mind what my bao bei tell me the other day.. "Don't drive too fast !!" Find it quite good sia.. at least everytime i drive past 100km/h.. I will recall what she told me and slow down... maybe I shall install those lorry buzzer that make noise when i exceed.. haha...

Oh yah... yesterday first time kena being asked for IC to take down my particulars.. Stupid sia.. Sometimes I wonder what they do with the information they got. kaoz !!